As the year winds down, introspection takes on a new, urgent quality. Last year, the focus was on pausing and being present, stepping back from the relentless drive for busyness. This year, however, has been about recognizing the profound impacts of our actions—not just in terms of career achievements but in the ripples we create through our choices, both large and small.

The lessons of this year were underscored by personal loss. In January, the death of a close friend and colleague at just 38—a vibrant life marked by her fierce belief in relationships, community, and supporting the underdog—prompted a deep reflection on how we use our time and the legacy we wish to leave. Her principles have guided my actions throughout the year; whether mentoring law students, providing a comforting presence, or challenging others to reach their potential, I've sought to embody the values she lived by.

What has been the return on these efforts? Far more than expected. I've learned about the silent struggles and resilience of those around me, and realized how seemingly small gestures can significantly impact others. This engagement has not only nurtured others but has also enriched my own life, enhancing my empathy and deepening my understanding of the world.

The truth I've come to realize is that gratitude expands when shared. This year's focus wasn’t on doing less—it was about doing more of what truly matters. It was about making a meaningful difference, reflecting the person I aspire to be, regardless of external rewards.

The legal profession, with its emphasis on speed and achievement, doesn’t always make this easy. Yet, slowing down has opened up space for more significant pursuits—purpose, intention, service, connection. I am profoundly grateful for the trust and openness of the students I mentored, for the individuals who let me into their lives during tough times, and for the quiet moments that brought clarity about what—and who—really matters.

As we move forward, we don't control the amount of time we have, but we can decide how to use it and what we become because of it. This year, I chose to live with gratitude, presence, and impact. I chose to pay it forward.

For all these lessons, wrapped in both joy and sorrow, I remain deeply grateful.